Just Added

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Next time you visit DisabilityPride.net you’ll likely notice a new tab in the top row menu choices, “Ask Gerianne“.

When you click on the “Ask Gerianne” menu tab, you’ll now find an easy-to-fill form for you to submit your questions.

Don’t be shy or hesitant! Ask those questions that we know you have. Gerianne enjoys all types of questions and doesn’t consider any question “off limits”.

So, check out “Ask Gerianne” and ask away!

Survey: Ask Gerianne

DisabilityPride.net is about to try out a new feature – “Ask Gerianne”‘.
Submit a question you want to ask Gerianne, and once a week we will upload a video with Gerianne answering one or two of the questions we receive.
So, feel free to submit any wonderings you have on our Facebook page.

Memories and Reflections

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Yup! That was some winter! An ice storm resulting in 1 – 2 feet of solid ice that lasted 11 weeks; while having to continue to share living space with a highly abusive ex-husband; while working out financial and physical supports to live in my own place. Yup! That was some winter!!!!!!!!!

My then one (and only) attendant and my Minister, along with TeamWoirk’s Hannah Hefler-Jamieson and Elizabeth Fitzner were truly my mental “life lines.” I honestly think I would have lost my mind, spirit, and will if it weren’t for their support. I will always appreciate these amazing people. I am now as strong as I am in a significant part because of their support.

A screenshot of a Facebook memory with Gerianne sitting in her powerchair in front of Calvin Presbyterian Church. There are piles of snow around the entrance. Gerianne is smiling and wearing winter clothing.

It’s Back! – A Re-Introduction to Written in Faith

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For the past month or so, I’ve been feeling a familiar nudge – that metaphorical gentle poke in the ribs, that invisible tap on the shoulder. It’s a sensation I know well. I’ve felt it a few times in my past and I know it won’t go away. It’s going to keep jabbing at me ‘til I give in and do what it wants.

In acknowledging its presence, I smile a little and silently ask: “Really? You really want me to resurrect that? Really? Okay… You know best.”

Clearly from the lessons of folks like Moses, Jonah and even Adam & Eve, I know that one can’t run (or even hide) from “The Big Guy.” There’s nowhere anyone can go that you won’t hear that loving parental voice ask: “Are you kidding me? Seriously? You figured I wouldn’t know where you’d hide – I wouldn’t know exactly where to find you? Seriously???… You thought that? Really now.”

After what seemed like an incredibly cruel, slow and painful death, I shut down written-in-faith.net. I forget exactly when that was, but it became too painful to watch written-in-faith stagnate while my now very ex-husband’s all consuming needs of various kinds (medical, mental, emotional, fearful, psychological and his self-centeredness) took precedence.

But that was then. This is now. Obviously. And recently I’ve had a second thought. As some of you know, in 2021 I had intended to start my auto-biography, but the year was pretty much fraught with one disruption after another.

I know I’ve mentioned this before but one thing I’ve always liked about “new years” is the idea of a fresh start – kind of a reset button opportunity. So I started 2022 with that mind-set but quickly got discouraged again. In attempting to find, sort, review, and just determine what was what, I quickly became frustrated and overwhelmed.

See, most writers (or at least this writer) when writing, get immersed in the process, “in the flow” of words. We (or I) don’t often think about the mechanics of things like double-backups, (making sure your final composition is saved at least in one other place) and when updating a previously written piece, we often don’t stop long enough to even slightly rename the file – example: “In The Woods – 02” (the “- 02” indicating a revision of some kind.) Nope! We just open the file and start revising. Every once in a while we’ll “backup” a whole directory or drive onto another drive. If it’s been months (or years) since you’ve used your article but now want to revive it again, you might open it, save it in another location, then revise it again. After years of doing this, (sometimes not even realizing you’ve done this) well, you can see how easy it is to wind up with multiple versions of the same piece; and if you’re like I am, where you feel that a few words (or even one word) can make a huge difference, ahh, well again, figuring out what’s what can become really intense and stressful.

I’ve also on occasion been reminded that written in faith can encompass many things. Faith in what? Faith in yourself? Faith in God? Faith in your abilities? Faith in Humanity?

So yes. I’ve decided to resurrect written-in-faith.net.. In doing so I’ll likely embrace the many notions of faith and simply just write. I’ll also still work on my autobiography; but the posts on written-in-faith. will complement my life’s story and any of my other literary works.

ASAN Remembers

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From:

Tuesday, March 1st, the disability community will gather virtually across the world to remember these disabled victims of filicide – disabled people murdered by their family members or caregivers.

In the past five years, over 650 people with disabilities have been murdered by their parents, relatives or caregivers, and in the year since our last vigil, our community has lost over 60 more people to filicide. These are just the cases that we are aware of – since we began monitoring this issue, we learn about more murders every week. We read the victims’ names, see their photographs, and gather what information we can about their lives.

The criminal justice system has continued to give lighter sentences to parents and caregivers who murder disabled children. And we have seen the media continue to portray these murders in a sympathetic light. We hold the Day of Mourning vigils to draw attention to these injustices, to commemorate the lives of victims, and demand justice and equal protection under the law for all people with disabilities.

Since 2012, ASAN and other disability rights organizations have come together to send a clear message that disability is not a justification for violence. Our site coordinators have been hard at work planning events that bring their local disability community together safely and significantly for this important day. Everyone is welcome at our Virtual Vigil, or click here to see a list of all vigils. Feel free to choose one local to you, or plan to join one whose time or platform works best for you.

 

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